Sorry I never answered, my phone only sometimes tells me if I have notifications from here. Anyway, now I'm a little over 3 weeks out. I'm pretty okay. Got my second drain out on monday. It's so nice. Still some pain, but nothing crazy. They did dig out an infected stitch they missed, but it was very small and is clearing up on its own. I do have another slightly pussy spot but I'm keeping an eye on it.
I got silicone gel and sheets for the scaring. The sheets are great for the first few applications but then they get kind of gross. Even when I rinse them off. The gel is much easier to use but also expensive.
I whined about the pain a lot, but the impact on my confidence is unreal. Absolutely unreal. For no reason at all, I'll pull off my shirt in front of my husband and and he's ecstatic. Totally worth the nonsense of the actual surgery.