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We lived in a "retirement community," of over 9000 people, the overwhelming majority of whom were, at one time anyway, able to purchase their "apartments" in cash. Most probably sold their primary home, bought into the cash-only apartments, and had cash left over. So they bought an RV.

There are over 300 of them parked in an uncovered space in the RV lot on the property. Super cheap parking...like $10/foot/year. So a 35' rig costs $350/year to park.

A FEW...very, very few, ever move. And most that do move, do so in a group. They go about five miles and eat breakfast together at a city-owned golf-club-related restaurant with cheap food. Then they would "saddle up" and drive all the way to beachside parking spaces (called campsites, because the city let you park overnight), maybe 15 miles away. Then they did potluck-type meals, lots of booze, and card games. In the morning, it was group breakfast and nothing else I remember.

There were other adventures...to exciting locations like an Elks Lodge an hour or so south.

Not my kind of deal.

Anyway, I don't know how many of the RVs can actually travel anywhere...or how many were constructed this century. But if I wanted to TRY RV life, I'd try to rent or purchase one from folks in a retirement community.

I've never been a social club person. Did what was necessary...scout leader, PTA, school board stuff. But never went to join the knitting club. So in old age, I just got MORE like me, and my only IRL activity is tbe annual neighborhood watch meeting. They have free tacos.
 
They have free tacos.

Never underestimate the value of free tacos!

There is an Airstream Dealer close to me and I drive by quite often. They have some really different looking RV type vehicles in there. Would love to look at them but I avoid it because of their likely high pressure sales staff!
 
In OUR 55+ community, the RV club is much more adventurous. Although I will admit that the only trip we've been on so far was about 100 miles from here, an easy drive up I-17, to stay in an RV resort right off the highway. It was centrally located for well-organized side trips to the nearby National Park, Sedona, Cottonwood, Jerome, and a casino nearby (we won some $$). We also took our own side trips on the Verde Canyon Railroad and visiting friends in Sedona. It was a 6 day trip, very organized - coffee and breakfasts, potluck dinners, cocktail parties, lunch at the fancy hotel at the top of the mountain in Jerome.

Depending on how he feels by then*, we are currently scheduled to go on a 10 day trip with the club to the Albuquerque Balloon Festival (http://www.balloonfiesta.com/), leaving October 7th - 17th. It's about 420 miles each way, to be driven in two days as a caravan. Since it is an easy drive, I could even practice my RV driving skills on this trip.

A group of folks in the club are currently on a two month, about 4000 mile, trip in the Rockies. We had planned on a similar trip, but earlier in the summer and going further west, but those plans had to be canceled. There's a trip next year to Paso Robles, with an optional continuation further up the California coast.

(* Charles is currently undergoing 9 weeks of 5 day/week radiation therapy (IMRT) for VERY early stage prostate cancer; last day is September 17th. This is more aggressive therapy than was "necessary" given his age and the non-aggressive stage [doctor said some urologists would call it pre-cancer] - watchful waiting was an option, but he wanted to take action now which should reduce his chances of spread/recurrence to less than 5% by the time he is in his 80s or 90s, as well as obviate the need for future biopsies unless his PSA goes up - he was not keen on having that again.)
 
I love the thought of an RV lifestyle, but If I'm honest, it would be with a paid driver. I can barely park my Buick Enclave between the lines and my husband drives at a rate of speed that drives me nuts (about 1 mile below speed limit at all times). Best wishes to your Charles DianaCox.
 
Your Charles would be a great RV driver. When you’re on the road in an RV, towing either a trailer or your car, you want to stay around 60 mph anyway. No rush. In the meantime, you play/work on your laptop.

I told Charles I would drive a good part of the trip to Albuquerque, and he said MAYBE I could drive part of the way back. SCORE! I’ve got him thinking ahead to the trip in a positive way - he’s been struggling emotionally with his diagnosis and other things for months, so he’s been reluctant to make any plans. The treatments can cause bowel and urinary issues, and he’s been very concerned about it. Also, the treatments require him to arrive with a full bladder and empty bowels which is not easy for him. He’s not a happy camper right now.
 
Your Charles would be a great RV driver. When you’re on the road in an RV, towing either a trailer or your car, you want to stay around 60 mph anyway. No rush. In the meantime, you play/work on your laptop.

I told Charles I would drive a good part of the trip to Albuquerque, and he said MAYBE I could drive part of the way back. SCORE! I’ve got him thinking ahead to the trip in a positive way - he’s been struggling emotionally with his diagnosis and other things for months, so he’s been reluctant to make any plans. The treatments can cause bowel and urinary issues, and he’s been very concerned about it. Also, the treatments require him to arrive with a full bladder and empty bowels which is not easy for him. He’s not a happy camper right now.
I am sure he is not happy! Tell him I am thinking about him! I know you will love the balloon festival!
 
Best wishes to Charles, for sure. I am having trouble saying "so glad to hear his cancer is maybe only precancer" in a good way. :frown:

and I hope you two can make the trip.
 
Your Charles would be a great RV driver. When you’re on the road in an RV, towing either a trailer or your car, you want to stay around 60 mph anyway. No rush. In the meantime, you play/work on your laptop.

I told Charles I would drive a good part of the trip to Albuquerque, and he said MAYBE I could drive part of the way back. SCORE! I’ve got him thinking ahead to the trip in a positive way - he’s been struggling emotionally with his diagnosis and other things for months, so he’s been reluctant to make any plans. The treatments can cause bowel and urinary issues, and he’s been very concerned about it. Also, the treatments require him to arrive with a full bladder and empty bowels which is not easy for him. He’s not a happy camper right now.
Full bladder and empty bowels...makes my head swim thinking of fulfilling THAT requirement! Poor guy! I applaud him on pushing for treatment. So many “let’s wait and see” diagnosis, makes me cringe. I hope he’s one of the lucky who escapes the potential radiation side affects.
 
The full bladder thing is SO familiar to women who have U/S OB/GYN exams - and the ultrasonographer is NEVER on time. The way this radiation treatment center does their schedule, and the fact that he chose to have his appointments early in the morning, he's never made to wait more than a few minutes, and they usually get him in early. But I would NEVER be able to be "de-pooped" by 7 AM (when he leaves for his appointments) - it takes me 3 hours usually to be done! I might as well not go to sleep!
 
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