-Flo-
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So many of you may remember, I posted earlier about my brother's wedding. I was hurt because my future sister in law did not ask me to be a bridesmaid and from my impression, it was because of my weight and how I might ruin the pictures. Well the wedding is 10 days away and we get an email from the bride's father with a dance he wants us to learn to surprise the bride and groom with. Now her side of the family are all dancers, one even owns a studio. My side of the family does not dance. we never took lessons, two left feet all around. There is no time to practice the dance together as we are flying in for the wedding and did not allot any time for this. So we are expected to learn a complicated dance routine, to a full song in 10 days and be prepared to perform it infront of 300 people. I'm pissed. No one asked if I wanted to do this. Their side of the family have been practicing and I normally never ever dance.
I feel like if I say no, then I am a big party pooper. But I know if I say that I will do it, I will be a nervous wreck and not be able to enjoy my brother's wedding. It is one thing to be a bridesmaid which just involves standing there, it is another thing to dance a complicated routine.
What would you do?
I feel like if I say no, then I am a big party pooper. But I know if I say that I will do it, I will be a nervous wreck and not be able to enjoy my brother's wedding. It is one thing to be a bridesmaid which just involves standing there, it is another thing to dance a complicated routine.
What would you do?