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tooshky

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If you're pre-op, state the surgery you'll be having and 5 reasons why you chose it.

If you're post-op, state the surgery you had and 5 things you wish you would have known before the wls.

As for me, I'm still flip flopping between VSG and DS so I can't even play my own game :notworthy:
 
Um, my friend....How about you use the search function and read the history, instead of asking for people to spend time and effort RE-typing stuff that they've long since written, in many cases multiple times?

Thank you very much. I don't play this kind of "game" and in fact, I find it offensive when people ask this stuff instead of taking moments of time to do a keyword search.
 
Yup, by golly the search function works! I put in the keywords "surgery decision" (no quotation marks) and voila, up came a whole bunch of pertinent hits!
 
5 things you wish you would have known before the wls.

I am not immediately able to think of anything, seriously. not sure if that sounds...arrogant? like, I was SO well prepared - but I did seem to have all the info I needed.

now, had I not known to ask to have my gall bladder taken out when my stomach was (I had VSG) I would have regretted that. but I knew that! if I think of anything, I'll tell you.

as for what you should have... keep reading!
 
Post Op: Duodenal Switch (Laparoscopic)

Things I wish I had known before WLS:

1. The veterans on this board.
2. That my surgeon's decision to leave my gallbladder intact despite my wishes to the contrary was actually good for me. (I developed bile salt diarrhea from routine gallbladder removal during cancer surgery)
3. That cancer was lurking (pancreatic neuroendocrine tumor).
 
Not exactly an answer to your question, per se, but I have to say that a major deciding factor (IMO) about deciding VSG vs. DS should be the amount of "upkeep" you're willing to commit to. My sister had VSG 6 weeks after I had my DS. I've lost 222 pounds, she lost 100 (although I did have a lot more to lose). She wishes the weight would come off faster/easier- she feels like she is on yet another diet, always changing up her eating to try to find something that works when she stalls for weeks at a time, and she works out quite a bit. The weight has dropped more quickly for me, and I have more freedom to eat satisfying foods with lots of fat, BUT, she fully admits that she's just not the type to take all the vitamins per day that I have to (she's lucky if she gets in a chewy multi and calcium) and she's not going to have labs done every 3-6 months and look deeper into the results than the dr telling her her levels are "fine". She's not going to eat 120-160 grams of protein a day, and she's not going to want to deal with the potential for potty issues that, are not inevitable, but more common for DSers, especially when eating carbs. I think those are questions that you have to really ask of yourself. Are you willing to have to spend money on vitamins and protein, even if you don't have the money? That's something that I've struggled with over the past few months, I can go without clothes shopping, I can go without going out for dinner, but I can't go without my vitamins and protein. Not everyone is willing to make that commitment.

Also, do you have comorbidities? My sister didn't, she just struggled her whole life with yoyo dieting. I had diabetes and very severe sleep apnea, which was causing a whole laundry list of other health problems, and I believe, no, I'm pretty certain, that I was going to die an early death. The decision was not about vanity for me, so I was willing to make serious changes.

Ok, sorry for rambling!
 
Not exactly an answer to your question, per se, but I have to say that a major deciding factor (IMO) about deciding VSG vs. DS should be the amount of "upkeep" you're willing to commit to. My sister had VSG 6 weeks after I had my DS. I've lost 222 pounds, she lost 100 (although I did have a lot more to lose). She wishes the weight would come off faster/easier- she feels like she is on yet another diet, always changing up her eating to try to find something that works when she stalls for weeks at a time, and she works out quite a bit. The weight has dropped more quickly for me, and I have more freedom to eat satisfying foods with lots of fat, BUT, she fully admits that she's just not the type to take all the vitamins per day that I have to (she's lucky if she gets in a chewy multi and calcium) and she's not going to have labs done every 3-6 months and look deeper into the results than the dr telling her her levels are "fine". She's not going to eat 120-160 grams of protein a day, and she's not going to want to deal with the potential for potty issues that, are not inevitable, but more common for DSers, especially when eating carbs. I think those are questions that you have to really ask of yourself. Are you willing to have to spend money on vitamins and protein, even if you don't have the money? That's something that I've struggled with over the past few months, I can go without clothes shopping, I can go without going out for dinner, but I can't go without my vitamins and protein. Not everyone is willing to make that commitment.

Also, do you have comorbidities? My sister didn't, she just struggled her whole life with yoyo dieting. I had diabetes and very severe sleep apnea, which was causing a whole laundry list of other health problems, and I believe, no, I'm pretty certain, that I was going to die an early death. The decision was not about vanity for me, so I was willing to make serious changes.

Ok, sorry for rambling!

Thank you SO much for rambling! I'm still in the beginning phase of research and it wasn't until today that I realized just how many vitamins you DS'ers have to take! I'm not well and have to take over 20 medications a day already, so that's a biggie for me. I really appreciate you comparing the two and I'm sure other newbs will find it helpful as well.

Best of luck to you!
 
@JackieOnLine , Thanks! I wish I still had it, but it's gone now... Apparently, I am one of the lucky ones who have had the bile salt / bile acid diarrhea complication from gall bladder removal (cholecystectomy). It's not pleasant, but my symptoms are well-managed with pharmaceutical assistance. Problems are that the drug that successfully treats the condition for me, Welchol, is costly($100 / month out of pocket after insurance), must be taken with food and it interferes with vitamin absorption, so I can't have vites with two of my meals each day...

When I had my DS, I was irked that my surgeon didn't remove my gallbladder, though he told me then the reason was that it looked okay and that removal bore risks of its own.

I only realized that had been a good decision 6 months later when it was removed with my cancer surgery and the bile salt diarrhea began. It took a few weeks of suffering to realize what had happened. Had mine been removed with DS, it would have made my recovery much more difficult.
 
@tooshky , troll much? You are welcome to google my name and see what I do, you spoiled ******* whining brat. Piss off. Bummer that our platform does not block your spoiled ******** access to my words when I block you.
 
All because I said USE THE ******* SEARCH FUNCTION and then went and looked to ascertain that the search function WORKS. God I am generous and the OP is whining brat
 
In Internet slang, a troll (/ˈtroʊl/, /ˈtrɒl/) is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people,[1] by posting inflammatory,[2] extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a newsgroup, forum, chat room, or blog) with the deliberate intent of provoking readers into an emotional response[3] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.[4]

Sounds a lot more like you imo :) Stop hijacking threads that could be useful for newbies just to get attention. Also, don't expect any more attention from me. I'm well aware that's what fuels trolls like you.
 

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