more2adore
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If you are squeamish, and do not care to hear about other people's NSVs that include very personal bathroom and bedroom-related things, I don't blame you at all - but you will want to skip this post. lol! Hit the back button NOW! 
I've had a number of NSVs recently that I can't share anywhere public, but want to share with people who will "get it!"
1) When I first arrived in Australia, everywhere I went I would get my picture taken by Chinese tourists. I speak very little Mandarin, but enough to catch words like "fat" as they were taking my photo. Everywhere I went in Sydney this happened. I can't even explain how dehumanizing it was. I just realized the other day - it hasn't happened in months! I don't know when I crossed the threshold of not being circus lady fat to them anymore, but apparently 418 pounds is not as interesting as 525-600 pounds!
2) Hubby and I had sex the other day and we managed (with the help of a well-constructed low couch) me on top! That's the first time in my LIFE I've ever been able to be on top.
3) In the bathroom I can now sit further back on the toilet and spread my legs apart more which means less cleanup after. And though I can't manage wiping myself with TP sitting yet, I can do it standing with one leg on the toilet seat if I find myself without my toileting brush I typically use. It's been years since my belly was small enough to allow that. I honestly can't remember the last time I could sit like a normal person on a toilet seat and wipe myself - I was a teenager, I think. I'll be really glad to get rid of this toileting brush for good when I'm small enough to allow that!
I've had a number of NSVs recently that I can't share anywhere public, but want to share with people who will "get it!"
1) When I first arrived in Australia, everywhere I went I would get my picture taken by Chinese tourists.
I speak very little Mandarin, but enough to catch words like "fat" as they were taking my photo. Everywhere I went in Sydney this happened. I can't even explain how dehumanizing it was. I just realized the other day - it hasn't happened in months! I don't know when I crossed the threshold of not being circus lady fat to them anymore, but apparently 418 pounds is not as interesting as 525-600 pounds! 2) Hubby and I had sex the other day and we managed (with the help of a well-constructed low couch) me on top! That's the first time in my LIFE I've ever been able to be on top.
3) In the bathroom I can now sit further back on the toilet and spread my legs apart more which means less cleanup after. And though I can't manage wiping myself with TP sitting yet, I can do it standing with one leg on the toilet seat if I find myself without my toileting brush I typically use. It's been years since my belly was small enough to allow that. I honestly can't remember the last time I could sit like a normal person on a toilet seat and wipe myself - I was a teenager, I think. I'll be really glad to get rid of this toileting brush for good when I'm small enough to allow that!
