Does someone have Spiky’s phone number?

[southernlady]

With her in the LA area and the numerous fires in the area, if you have her number can you call and find out if she and her husband are safe?

 

[JackieOnLine]

I got a PM from her here but that was 1:38. she said the fire was less than 10 miles from her but "we are OK". too close! hope someone has her number.

 

[southernlady]

I got a PM from her here but that was 1:38. she said the fire was less than 10 miles from her but "we are OK". too close! hope someone has her number.

At least you heard from her. Thanks.

 

[Spiky Bugger]

Here I am. Exhausted, but mostly intact.

On Monday, a small DIY plane crashed into a backyard tree a few of miles from here. Then the wind…wow!

Yesterday evening, got a semi-hysterical call from MiniSue. She and her guy were driving through an area that was receiving “immediate evacuation” orders via cell phone alerts and was panicked that we were stuck on the third floor of a building w/elevators that might not be working. (We were fine.).

A bit later, we had that power outage. It came back on at 3:53 this morning. I had to be at our property at 8:00 and then at the VA in DTLA at 11:00…on minimal sleep. Aargh.

Mr MiniSue drove me to the DTLA VA clinic and I met with the Nurse Practitioner from the Mental Health Dept. Mr Sue is experiencing more frequent episodes of memory impairment, so I’m experiencing more frequent episodes of “depressed caregiver spouse.” It’s hard to witness. And it’s hard to deal with absent the major part of my usual support because my usual support is the guy falling apart. Old is hard.

There! Sorry you asked?

And thanks for looking out for me.

 

[southernlady]

Thanks for checking in, please keep us updated. Being a caregiver is hard. But he doesn’t mean to be absent.

 

[JackieOnLine]

not sorry we asked, sorry old is hard (especially since everyone is there or heading there)

And it’s hard to deal with absent the major part of my usual support because my usual support is the guy falling apart.

I'm sorry - I hope you can get other support and respite care when needed.

 

[JackieOnLine]

I get a visceral feeling of how bad winds are in SoCal by watching the cam on the eagles nest in Big Bear, near LA. the winds are terrible again this morning and hope they die down soon.

eagle's nest cam

 

[southernlady]

Wildfires on the west coast are fairly common. But combined with the lack of water to fight them with has made this a particularly dangerous year.

 

[hilary1617]

So glad you are okay and sorry for the challenges with MrSue's memory, power outages, worries about MiniSue, and caregiving. That's a lot to bear. Thinking of you.