Same situation here. We’ve had our first “shots.” He is 68 and has a hx of MI—full-blown widow-maker heart attack at age 47 and and a family hx of cardio issues. I’m 74 with COPD, asthma, CHF (plus various non-respiratory issues). There ARE sicker people.
But, in addition to our kid and her partner having HAD the virus, we have an “intermittent son,” a hospital RN who sometimes works with COVID patients at work, who had a round of it himself and who, when the mood strikes him…such as during really busy long shift weeks at work…shows up and says something like, “I hope you people don’t have any crap on my bed.”
In his mind, that makes us “Health Worker Family Members,” and keeps him from the long drive to his other home.
But, Hilary, you grew up Jewish and I grew up Catholic, so we’d probably be doing guilt if we were the last two vaccine recipients in the country.