Spiky Bugger
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I posted this on the FB page, and reposting here. If I weren't a widow and didn't have responsibilities to multiple people and had functional family within a day's drive it would be one thing. But I don't. And, being honest, I'm getting tired of being told that I'm going to ruin my life if I don't make a trip that I can't manage and I'm about ready to just give up on asking anyone for help that works because obviously my personal circumstances are less important than browbeating me over my options.
I'm doing the best I can with what I can and within the parameters that work for my life.
We all have personal circumstances. Some of us think we are more special or more burdened than others. We probably are not.
I think the point that SO MANY VETS are trying to make is that whatever your special needs are at the moment, the chances that a botched revision is going to increase those problems EXPONENTIALLY decrease with the more experienced surgeons.
You may do well. Or...you can go to OH and find someone named Larissa who decided that her financial problems trumped the "keep away from him" advice she got...and read how butchered she was.
And really...a GREAT surgeon doesn't come with guarantees...just better odds.
Edited to add...chances are very good that, in the week or several weeks (YMMV) post-op, you will be of ZERO use to the family who depends on you, whether you are down the street or on another continent. This is MONUMENTALLY different than LapBand surgery or even more extensive surgeries I have had...and my band was no problem to remove.
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