Parousia
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A couple of days ago I discovered my mother was going to stop off in Australia (here) on her way back to South Africa, after my niece's wedding in NZ. She made special plans to do it so she could meet my little boy for the first time. She will be arriving in Melbourne the day before my surgery, so I will be in hospital the whole time she is here.
The thing is this: I love my mother, but she has even worse ADD than I have, and my husband and I are pretty sure she has Aspergers Syndrome. She has very low emotional intelligence and cannot read body language or facial expressions at all. I can't deal with her for very long at a time myself. My husband does much better than I do, because he doesn't have all the emotional baggage that I carry from my childhood. Still, he's not much of a fan!
My husband is very unhappy that he is going to be stuck with her while I'm in hospital. I don't blame him, but what am I supposed to do about it? I am glad that she will get to meet my son and spend time with him. It will probably be many years before she has another chance to see him, if at all. I'm just so torn about this. I don't want to have to spend my time in hospital worrying about hubby and how he is coping! Not much alternative, I guess. Ugh!
The thing is this: I love my mother, but she has even worse ADD than I have, and my husband and I are pretty sure she has Aspergers Syndrome. She has very low emotional intelligence and cannot read body language or facial expressions at all. I can't deal with her for very long at a time myself. My husband does much better than I do, because he doesn't have all the emotional baggage that I carry from my childhood. Still, he's not much of a fan!
My husband is very unhappy that he is going to be stuck with her while I'm in hospital. I don't blame him, but what am I supposed to do about it? I am glad that she will get to meet my son and spend time with him. It will probably be many years before she has another chance to see him, if at all. I'm just so torn about this. I don't want to have to spend my time in hospital worrying about hubby and how he is coping! Not much alternative, I guess. Ugh!