I ******* hate drama!

[DianaCox]

Ditto what Sheanie said. I would be very careful of the lies a sociopath can tell - BTDT.

 

[SHales]

I was a free sitter before Donna came and I was Ok with that. She is a SAHM so they don't need a sitter except when they go out of town without the kids. Normally, they take them, so being a free sitter is not an issue. I don't know about sociopath but I have not been alone with her since the incident, on purpose. She IS a world-class manipulator and that is a sign of a sociopath. I have had no contact with them other than picking up or dropping off one of the kids. I know the little girl is an accomplished liar and so do they, but it gets conveniently forgotten in this instance and I am sure in others that I am not aware of, just because a learned behavior like that is used whenever needed by kids. I am sure Donna is filling Morgan's ear with ******** and I don't care. What I DO care about is that my son is allowing it when he never would before. Why doesn't he come and talk to me? Why is he seemingly taking her word for everything? WTF is wrong with him? I think that Luke is going to point some things out to Morgan because he doesn't allow people to bad-mouth his mother. I have calmed down considerably and am waiting to see what happens.

Oh, and @Sheanie, I only take them for a few hours a week, not a week at a time. Sorry for the confusion.

 

[Sheanie]

Well, he's taking her word for everything basically because she's got him by the balls. In some important way, she's got a chokehold on those parts. The little accomplished liar learned by example. Liars learn that behavior, they don't just pop out of the womb lying. Sociopaths breed sociopaths, liars produce little liars.

All you can control in this situation is your (re)actions. I reiterate: I would never be alone with the children. Your son will wake up eventually, and you can be rid of the problem woman. In the meantime, speak the truth and do not get sucked in. Have witnesses whenever the children are around, especially the little liar. Because whenever a child makes an allegation of abuse, we have no choice but to take them seriously. And therein lies the problem with little liars. You can never call them liars.

 

[Elizabeth N.]

Yup, what @Sheanie said. Protect yourself. I'm sorry it has to be this way, but you're a sitting duck to get oh, so ****** over for everything you have or could possibly still acquire in this life. WATCH. OUT.

 

[SHales]

Ok, I will be very careful. She did not say I was physically mean to her but that could be next. I am sure she learned from her mother, positive, as a matter of fact. The 'hold' Donna has one him is the fact that she is pregnant. On purpose, I am sure. My son is VERY commitment oriented and has the "family unit" at the top. That and the fact that it cost him over $40,000.00 in attorney fees for his divorce. His ex got nothing but the other car and 50% custody of Riley. I am sure he is very worried about another $800.00 a month for child support. What a cluster ****. One other thing about Morgan, he is honest and trustworthy and actually thinks that other people are basically the same.

 

[JackieOnLine]

oh, dear. it's a damn shame your son is honest and expecting the same from others, but since he is in law enforcement you'd think he would be less naive... why doesn't he just listen to his mother?!

I know: sex.

I feel sorry for Jyllian who could use a stable, honest influence but you have to cover your ass. guess it will be the same with the new baby. (n) how far along is she?