Wow, so many supportive responses. I've been in and out of consciousness all day so am just now seeing this. I have never been one to resist posting my doctor and I will. But first, let me explain my conversation with him today. I couldn't talk to him when he was here yesterday because I was in so much pain and nauseated..I've never tolerated general anesthesia well. You may have already seen this posted on another group page. I don't have the energy to re-type it:
Just talked to dr. Went very well. He is so kind and helpful and really explained his going back and forth in his head but just deciding he was too scared. I appreciated his honesty and humility.
It was because my stomach under the band was just too damaged and needs time to heal. He showed me pucs. But he said three months would probably be enough time and when I come in for my follow-up in two weeks I can schedule the second step for early next year if everything is going well. His office is already working on getting my insurance to pay for part two, but he said he'd do his part for no additional cost. I'd just have the hospital fees. I imagine that's still a whole lot, but I wonder how much, just in case it has to come out of my pocket.
He's not worried about the fluids going down too easily. Said I'd feel it more on solids. Frankly, at this point I'm grateful. I can drink liquids and take my pills with no problem and can schedule step 2 in two weeks when I come in for my first follow up.
Because of the terrible heartburn he suspects a hiatal hernia he can fix with step two which may actually help with insurance.
Update: there is no doubt I am sleeved. I think the extensive pain and nausea meds yesterday, based on my desperate and dramatic reaction to the anesthesia, might have caused me not to feel the restriction as much. I do feel it today though. But it's not as bad as I feared.