DuodenalSwitchaRoo
Taking a long scenic route!
I've been lurking...a lot. I've been trying to come up with the words to say.
My emotions are all over the place, though mostly down. Not suicidal down or anything like that, just more blah...melancholic...I feel no motivation or ambition for ANYTHING.
I've been great about getting my protein in, but I have tried some forbidden foods...and they brought me no joy at all. Tasted fine, didn't die of methane overdose or anything.....but it didn't DO IT for me any more.
I also tolerate codeine differently. I still take it for my arthritis, but I don't get the warm fuzzy feeling I used to get when I took it. It used to inspire me to organise, do homework, be social..etc...and now the only thing I get from it is some pain relief, though less than I used to.
I have nothing that makes me "feel good" any more. I haven't had spousal relations since pre op and thats bugging me...we've never gone more than 5 weeks and that was when I had my sleeve. That might be tmi but it's bugging me....and it's because of me....I feel so self ware of how much my wound stinks (not infection stink, but dry blood stink...like a heavy period).
I'm feeling a bit defeated thinking my weight loss days are over. I'm not myself lately which is why I have not posted. Normally Im a chipper Pollyanna type, but right now I feel lost, and sad, and kinda hopeless.
My GP took bloods, everything looks great but that was sorta expected so early out. I see my surgeon early June, it was supposed to be today but I got a letter yesterday postponing it.
The hand is still lame, but the pain is less. it used to be so painful at night, but now it's just lame. I am forcing myself to use it so that if this is permanent I can at least sort of use it. The consensus is that it is carpal tunnel and that the way I was flopping my arm while unconscious could have triggered it.
Sorry to be so whingy, I just need some hugs as I feel really really lost in life and not excited about anything.
My emotions are all over the place, though mostly down. Not suicidal down or anything like that, just more blah...melancholic...I feel no motivation or ambition for ANYTHING.
I've been great about getting my protein in, but I have tried some forbidden foods...and they brought me no joy at all. Tasted fine, didn't die of methane overdose or anything.....but it didn't DO IT for me any more.
I also tolerate codeine differently. I still take it for my arthritis, but I don't get the warm fuzzy feeling I used to get when I took it. It used to inspire me to organise, do homework, be social..etc...and now the only thing I get from it is some pain relief, though less than I used to.
I have nothing that makes me "feel good" any more. I haven't had spousal relations since pre op and thats bugging me...we've never gone more than 5 weeks and that was when I had my sleeve. That might be tmi but it's bugging me....and it's because of me....I feel so self ware of how much my wound stinks (not infection stink, but dry blood stink...like a heavy period).
I'm feeling a bit defeated thinking my weight loss days are over. I'm not myself lately which is why I have not posted. Normally Im a chipper Pollyanna type, but right now I feel lost, and sad, and kinda hopeless.
My GP took bloods, everything looks great but that was sorta expected so early out. I see my surgeon early June, it was supposed to be today but I got a letter yesterday postponing it.
The hand is still lame, but the pain is less. it used to be so painful at night, but now it's just lame. I am forcing myself to use it so that if this is permanent I can at least sort of use it. The consensus is that it is carpal tunnel and that the way I was flopping my arm while unconscious could have triggered it.
Sorry to be so whingy, I just need some hugs as I feel really really lost in life and not excited about anything.