Just now saw this. 2020 was a cluster ****. I fell Mar, 2020.I'm somewhat better. I worst bir over. I chose to not attend. My hip was in no shape to galvanizing around PY
Just saw this. Recovery from the fracture is slower than I'd hoped, but I keep forgetting that I'm 72. I'm still using a cane for short distances. I use a scooter at the grocery store. The hip pain is still there. The level hovers between 4-8 depending on my activities.
A new wrinkle is the huge bunion on my left foot. I saw the podiatrist and will probably have it fixed in July. She did an xray and saw osteoporosis that concerns her.
By far, my biggest problem is my mental health. Even changing my antidepressant and anxiety mess didn’t hold back an epic meltdown. I was removed from the Governor position for my service club. That has improved things a lot. The decision was out of my hands. And I'm actually grateful. It was handled with grace and I've been able to maintain some dignity. Nothing like a meltdown to learn who really cares about me.
We had our district convention where the new officers were installed. Traditionally, the outgoing Governor is given a gift of appreciation. I was honored with a donation to our local animal shelter. That definitely means more to me than anything else they could have done. We had to have both of our dogs put down. I knew it would hurt like hell. With the declining health of my husband and me, there won't be anymore. We're doing okay for activities of daily living. We can't give a new dog the life it deserves.
I'm getting better at taking the one day at a time. I have reservations for a trip to Seattle at the end of June. I'm sort hanging somewhere in the middle of if I really go. I can rent an electric scooter and get help at airports.
Well now, aren't you glad you asked?
No! Not sorry I asked. Just sorry you have been through so much. And, really…if you were NOT depressed and suffering emotionally, it would simply mean you wern’t paying attention to what’s been going on.
You know those medical intake forms they use for new patients? ”Do you have THIS disease? What about THAT disease?” And at the end they ask if you are depressed? I usually write something like, “Look at my LAST 20 answers. If I were NOT depressed, wouldn’t it mean I was completely clueless?”
And then your husband’s health issues. I am dealing with less, but have a hint as to your life. It took my husband three weeks to master the concept that while helping me dress, shirts go on the broken arm first and come off the unbroken arm first.
Today it was…
Him (furiously): Well now it says I’m locked out of this £¥6;”*#%; portal!
Me: Keep reading.
Him (finally): Call 866-555-5555.
Me: You want to try that?
Him: Sure.
Him (as he moves to where I’m sitting, puts his cell on speaker between us, and puts his laptop in front of me): Here.
So I can’t even dress myself…haven’t even TRIED to wear a bra for a month…and having to deal with his frustration at everyday challenges.
But you are planning a trip! That’s such a positive thing!