@Munchkin , Let's just say that the annual holiday visit is complicated. She really can't help herself, so I try to deal, but at some point it does become insufferable. Last visit, I did pay for her to spend a weekend at a hotel mid-visit as a holiday gift (which I gave to both her and myself). Fortunately she's in Amsterdam and I'm in Chicago, so she can't watch my plate like a hawk these days.
I was a skinny kid, but my family was over-the-top health-conscious (my dad used to give people fitness guides as gifts, parents and sister were long distance runners, we all skied competitively), so we were subjected to all manner of strange diet fads and we weren't routinely allowed anything sugary or heavily processed, so in a way, she's carrying on the family tradition and I'm the oddball for liking meat and hating cooking....