jjordan8130
Well-Known Member
Ok guys. Sorry to totally skip out. Last weekend I worked then headed into final exams with school. It's been a CRAZY past few days! I'm finally winding down.
First, thanks for the support! What @k9ophile said is the truth. The NUT education there is the same regardless of the surgery. Personally I think he had some DSrs struggle and now he shys away from doing them. But as she said, they bear the responsibility. I'm a fresh post op and I have gotten very little support. Not only do they not give you the correct diet and vit information, but they judge you heavily when you don't follow the information they gave. You become an outcast, bc remember...they know more than you, right?! (heavy sarcasm implied) As many of you know I had to argue my way into getting the DS. He didn't want to do it in the beginning and he was very outspoken at every appt about it. He even called me personally the night before after office hours and tried talking me out of it. He did tell me that a lot of his sleeve would be back for DS at some point. I understand why he's sleeving people. He wants to DS them later when they aren't successful. I'm not saying that a sleeve can't be successful, but I am saying I don't think it's in the best interest of a 450 pound patient to just have a sleeve for weight loss (He sleeved on the day he did my surgery...I met her in the office at my post op visit). I asked, not knowing her co morbs, if he intended to DS her later. Maybe DS was too risky for her at that time????? I had no idea what her situtaion was. So of course I asked her and she said no....he just wanted to do sleeve. She was a diabetic and had sleep apnea. How could he possibly expect her to be successful long term? I'm not saying it's impossible....but it doesn't seem likely. I wish her the very best and hopefully I'll see her again in passing at the office. I just believe in doing what's best for the patient. I don't think that was it.
@DianaCox The follow up support and care just isn't there for the DS. I'm sorry to say it, but it's not. K9 can back me up on this. She knows first hand this is the case. The people who get the support and the sainthood at that office are the ones who follow to the T the advice of the NUTs and surgeons AND keep the weight off without cheating EVER! If you admit to not being perfect you're done. I do NOT attend their support groups (for good reason!). I only do my follow up appt for lab work. That's it. He's gonna be pissed when I go back in June and mark the same information!!!!!!!!!! Ask me if I care?! I get my protein in and YES I eat fat. He can kiss my ass.
@nursemelanie Who did your VSG? I looked at Dr. Boyce as well. I threatened to take my business there if mine wouldn't DS me. Are you close to Nashville?
First, thanks for the support! What @k9ophile said is the truth. The NUT education there is the same regardless of the surgery. Personally I think he had some DSrs struggle and now he shys away from doing them. But as she said, they bear the responsibility. I'm a fresh post op and I have gotten very little support. Not only do they not give you the correct diet and vit information, but they judge you heavily when you don't follow the information they gave. You become an outcast, bc remember...they know more than you, right?! (heavy sarcasm implied) As many of you know I had to argue my way into getting the DS. He didn't want to do it in the beginning and he was very outspoken at every appt about it. He even called me personally the night before after office hours and tried talking me out of it. He did tell me that a lot of his sleeve would be back for DS at some point. I understand why he's sleeving people. He wants to DS them later when they aren't successful. I'm not saying that a sleeve can't be successful, but I am saying I don't think it's in the best interest of a 450 pound patient to just have a sleeve for weight loss (He sleeved on the day he did my surgery...I met her in the office at my post op visit). I asked, not knowing her co morbs, if he intended to DS her later. Maybe DS was too risky for her at that time????? I had no idea what her situtaion was. So of course I asked her and she said no....he just wanted to do sleeve. She was a diabetic and had sleep apnea. How could he possibly expect her to be successful long term? I'm not saying it's impossible....but it doesn't seem likely. I wish her the very best and hopefully I'll see her again in passing at the office. I just believe in doing what's best for the patient. I don't think that was it.
@DianaCox The follow up support and care just isn't there for the DS. I'm sorry to say it, but it's not. K9 can back me up on this. She knows first hand this is the case. The people who get the support and the sainthood at that office are the ones who follow to the T the advice of the NUTs and surgeons AND keep the weight off without cheating EVER! If you admit to not being perfect you're done. I do NOT attend their support groups (for good reason!). I only do my follow up appt for lab work. That's it. He's gonna be pissed when I go back in June and mark the same information!!!!!!!!!! Ask me if I care?! I get my protein in and YES I eat fat. He can kiss my ass.
@nursemelanie Who did your VSG? I looked at Dr. Boyce as well. I threatened to take my business there if mine wouldn't DS me. Are you close to Nashville?