Sometimes it is the simple pleasures that mean the most. And know you are beautiful and will be so at any shape and size.
Too Funny! For most of us one of the downsides is the leftovers. It sucks when the body can't snap back. Usually it's the women with issues but it happens to all of us. Here's a guy story that will slay you. I know a man who lost about 300lbs. He had to have a testicle lift and it was covered by insurance. Every time he sat down on the toilet, his testicles hit the water. Insurance agreed to pay because it was quite unsanitary and there was no other way to take care of the problem! Thankfully he did have a sense of humor and was able to laugh about it.Here here!!!!!!!!! Cheers @more2adore
So proud of you. Just wow.
Don't even get me started!! I was buttass nekkid in front of someone for the first time in years this weekend. I've been 'almost' naked - but never 100% completely.. I kept looking at my boobs. It's super-incredible how much definition has been lost. My poor titties LOL. For anyone interested - I AM collecting for the Jacquii Cooke's Big Titties fund. I made a Facebook page and a stupid graphic about it:
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I know - it's super ridiculous.
A graphic made in 10 minutes and a *piece of a poem* made in even less time LOL
I haven't made the page public - it's been collecting dust for a year or so now hahaha. Je t'adore .... a bit ironic. But haven't each of us come from a place of unsatisfaction only to find that we ARE worthy of love? I think so. And I'm totally loving your success right now @more2adore --- Anyway - perhaps one of these days when my fund reaches capacity - Can share a bit for all of us with the saggy tubes. And perhaps a bit of help for us with the batwings as well LOL. Only request I have is if you can share some of those shapely hips! Excuse the language - but fuck what you heard!! Your shape is EVERYTHING girlie.
Cheers. And here's to your continued success!
J.
Here here!!!!!!!!! Cheers @more2adore
So proud of you. Just wow.
Don't even get me started!! I was buttass nekkid in front of someone for the first time in years this weekend. I've been 'almost' naked - but never 100% completely.. I kept looking at my boobs. It's super-incredible how much definition has been lost. My poor titties LOL. For anyone interested - I AM collecting for the Jacquii Cooke's Big Titties fund. I made a Facebook page and a stupid graphic about it:
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I know - it's super ridiculous.
A graphic made in 10 minutes and a *piece of a poem* made in even less time LOL
I haven't made the page public - it's been collecting dust for a year or so now hahaha. Je t'adore .... a bit ironic. But haven't each of us come from a place of unsatisfaction only to find that we ARE worthy of love? I think so. And I'm totally loving your success right now @more2adore --- Anyway - perhaps one of these days when my fund reaches capacity - Can share a bit for all of us with the saggy tubes. And perhaps a bit of help for us with the batwings as well LOL. Only request I have is if you can share some of those shapely hips! Excuse the language - but fuck what you heard!! Your shape is EVERYTHING girlie.
Cheers. And here's to your continued success!
J.
And thanks for all your constant support, Liz - I appreciate it so much. Oh, I have no doubt there will be further issues. I'm open and honest about having had the surgery without ever pushing it on anyone, though. So far my experience has been that a lot of people my current and former size want to talk about it and hate that there's no real safe space to do so. But they know they can come to me privately and chat, and some of them do just that. That's about all I can do for the moment.
It's so funny you'd mention shopping carts - I don't know HOW supersized women in Australia handle it. I guess they all get their groceries delivered. Because here, the shopping carts have ALL FOUR wheels that spin 360 degrees instead of just the front two. So there's NO stability to the cart. You can't lean on it for support. Pushing it (especially when it gets full) is incredibly difficult. When I first arrived, I had to have hubby do all the shopping because I could no longer use the cart for a little extra support while doing the walking around the store! Only the Costco here (with American everything) also has American-style carts - the little things you take for granted and never know about, I swear! There's still much more of me to adore than your average person. Thanks.
Thank you so much.
I really appreciate your sweet comments. Here here!!!!!!!!! Cheers @more2adore
So proud of you. Just wow.[...]
Only request I have is if you can share some of those shapely hips! Excuse the language - but fuck what you heard!! Your shape is EVERYTHING girlie.
Cheers. And here's to your continued success!
J.
And good luck on your quest for boobs, lol. 
<3 I do think I've found the happiest medium I can with my tightrope walking... on my FB I make updates on my WL/WLS visible to everyone EXCEPT my FA friends, UNLESS they opted in back when I first announced I was having surgery and (in order to be cognisant of people who could be triggered by it) updates would be opt-in only. And then I have my separate FB WLS account. I'm surprised I didn't lose more friends at the start when I announced it, but I have had people come to me asking about it. So people definitely know I had it and they can talk to me about it, thankfully.
I hit 200 pounds down today... I'm officially under 400 and in the 300s! And I've lost 1/3 of my body weight now! YAY!!! 
