MsVee
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I always thought people were bigoted or prejudiced because they didn’t know any better. I was raised to believe that if we focused more on our similarities than our differences we would be less judgmental of each other and ultimately find common ground.
Growing up a minority on Long Island’s north shore I tried to learn as much as I could about other cultures and to share information about mine. My Father was born in the Bahamas and emigrated in the 40’s. My Mother was born in Inman, SC ( Spartanburg County). They came from different backgrounds but respected each other enough to learn and honor their cultural differences.
My Father was an introvert and cautious by nature. My Mother thought the definition of a stranger was “ a friend you haven’t met yet”. She was always friendly and open and rarely if ever let someone’s bad behavior or unkind remark bother her.
In high school I wanted to be a cultural anthropologist. After living through the Trump era I am afraid of what is out there. I dont know if we as a society became less intelligent or if it was just more acceptable to share your bigotry. Bigots were suddenly admired for being “honest”. It was suddenly ok to voice racial bias’. Everyone was tired of being politically correct. Let’s ignore politics for a moment are we tired of being correct? Are we tired of judging people by their actions instead of gender, religion, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or economic status? What happened to us?
I am sorry I am rambling. I guess this is what happens when you spend to much time being COVID cautious.
Growing up a minority on Long Island’s north shore I tried to learn as much as I could about other cultures and to share information about mine. My Father was born in the Bahamas and emigrated in the 40’s. My Mother was born in Inman, SC ( Spartanburg County). They came from different backgrounds but respected each other enough to learn and honor their cultural differences.
My Father was an introvert and cautious by nature. My Mother thought the definition of a stranger was “ a friend you haven’t met yet”. She was always friendly and open and rarely if ever let someone’s bad behavior or unkind remark bother her.
In high school I wanted to be a cultural anthropologist. After living through the Trump era I am afraid of what is out there. I dont know if we as a society became less intelligent or if it was just more acceptable to share your bigotry. Bigots were suddenly admired for being “honest”. It was suddenly ok to voice racial bias’. Everyone was tired of being politically correct. Let’s ignore politics for a moment are we tired of being correct? Are we tired of judging people by their actions instead of gender, religion, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or economic status? What happened to us?
I am sorry I am rambling. I guess this is what happens when you spend to much time being COVID cautious.