Hmm. Take what you said to a doctor. Guarentee you they will see differently. What you indicate is DS is the best surgery. It is for some, others not so much. The fact is, pretty much everyone on this board is taking personal responsibility/has the will power to follow through with the requirements of this surgery.
If DS was the best surgery overall, they wouldn't have stopped doing it in the vast majority of bariatric surgeries.
While at the docs, try telling them that you will not take personal responsibility for the surgery choices. Good luck on finding those docs. If you blame the surgery, you indirectly can blame them.
PS There are several issues missed in the response to me. Below, you can still see that personal choices make a difference. Those personal choices are also called willpower. If things go wrong, you can't change yourself, but you can change you and your responses to a situation, whether bariatric surgery or something else. Willpower. Personal responsibility. I see everyone on this board doing a lot of personal responsibility/willpower that others don't have. I applaud that. I don't want to take anything away from what they've worked hard to earn.
"there are clearly circumstances where patient behavior and those variables contributing to patient behavior are believed to play a role in determining the reason for less than expected weight loss".
http://citation.allacademic.com/met...dex.html?phpsessid=0e6n1tjkelmtgsrrhiskfrv0b3
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2879178/
This article examines the underlying assumptions and implications for
policy and the interventions of the two predominant models used to
explain the causes of obesity and also suggests a synthesis that
avoids “blaming the victim” while acknowledging the role of
individuals' health behaviors in weight maintenance.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4746450/
Participants expected extreme and sometimes unrealistic levels of
sustained weight loss, as well as improvements to physical and mental
health. The overall desire and expectation of bariatric surgery was of
‘normality’. Participants had received previous support from
clinicians and in weight management services. However, they reported
that their expectations of surgery had not been reviewed by services,
and expectations appeared to be unrealistic.
http://thebodyimagecenter.com/wp-co...tories-of-failure-after-bariatric-surgery.pdf
http://thebodyimagecenter.com/wp-co...tories-of-failure-after-bariatric-surgery.pdf
http://bariatrictimes.com/the-impor...es-and-considerations-for-the-bariatric-team/
There are occasions where these two definitions of success collide.
Specifically, there are instances where bariatric patients lose a
significant amount of weight following surgery but continue to
struggle with behavioral and emotional issues that lead them to
relapse and resume former habits, often resulting in weight regain. It
is becoming clear that bariatric surgery is not a cure-all and that
patients face a myriad of behavioral, emotional, and interpersonal
issues both before and after surgery and it is essential that these
issues be addressed to maximize patient outcomes.[15]
While it may be true that patient behavior is not the primary factor
in explaining poor weight loss following surgery, there are clearly
circumstances where patient behavior and those variables contributing
to patient behavior are believed to play a role in determining the
reason for less than expected weight loss. It is especially important
to note that psychologists, nutritionists, nurses, and other
integrated health professionals as well as surgeons commonly work with
patients who acknowledge that they are not being adherent or are
struggling to be adherent to post-surgical recommendations. Many such
patients will blame themselves for their inability to be adherent;
however, bariatric surgery itself does not teach patients new eating
behaviors. Therefore, most patients need to make a concerted effort to
learn how to make such changes to their eating and other behaviors and
not rely on surgery to force them to make these changes.