Stefanie S.
Well-Known Member
I'm back among the living and my first order of business is to thank all of you! I did go into this surgery informed, confident, and aware that the medical field (particularly dietitians) are not up to speed for DS surgeries. A few notes and questions...
Insurance Denied Twice
But my mom from Kansas had already flown to NC when I got the 2nd denial, which btw was told to me at 3:30pm on the day before my surgery. We made the decision to scramble and put the required fee on 6 different credit cards! I had to pay $20,000 to hospital, $9,000 for surgeon fee, and $2300 to the anesthesiologist. And they all wanted it paid in full up front. I will owe more too because that $20,000 only paid for 2 hospital nights. My questions...
Cheers,
Stefanie
Insurance Denied Twice
But my mom from Kansas had already flown to NC when I got the 2nd denial, which btw was told to me at 3:30pm on the day before my surgery. We made the decision to scramble and put the required fee on 6 different credit cards! I had to pay $20,000 to hospital, $9,000 for surgeon fee, and $2300 to the anesthesiologist. And they all wanted it paid in full up front. I will owe more too because that $20,000 only paid for 2 hospital nights. My questions...
- Will insurance be billed anyway? So that I can get any insurance discounts? I have BCBS of NC.
- Dr Sudan (my surgeon) wants to submit it to insurance again. Their last reason was lack of sufficient documentation of compliance to VSG surgery. Any advice on what to submit to meet this requirement? I have copied 12 food logs sampling over the last 3 years. My mom wrote a letter to attest to my exercise as we usually walked, swam,and worked out together. I'm at a loss for what else to provide.
- How does the hospital charge their "per day" fee? Is it by day or by number of nights? So I had to arrive at the hospital on Tuesday at 9:30 am to check-in for surgery. I was released at 12:00 noon on Friday. So that was a part of 4 different days, but only 3 nights. I understand it was around $10,000 per night, so I'm wondering how much more to expect to be billed for... and how many more credit cards to apply for (ha!)
- Though I was prepared for 4 hours, my surgery only took 1 hour, 45 minutes. I don't know all of my numbers, only that my common channel is 100 cm. My stomach was not re-sleeved. My gallbladder was removed. My small hiatal hernia was left alone.
- Coming out of surgery into the recovery room was a NIGHTMARE. I was in incredible pain and the recovery nurse was ridiculously uncaring and rude. I was moaning in pain and telling her it hurt. She told me to be quiet because there were lots of other patients around me. Then I kept getting woke up by this loud beep, and she would come firmly say, "BREATHE". After a while, she said, "See, now I've over-medicated you and you stop breathing." I don't know how, but I was coherent enough to say "Can I have my CPAP machine?" She said "You didn't tell me you had a CPAP!" Then I heard her tell someone that I didn't tell her until way late about my CPAP. ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Yes, it is surely my job to come right out of surgery and make sure the nurse is aware that I have a CPAP! It is all over my chart, right? I have seen it. How was this not known?
- Once I got to my room, the nursing staff at Duke Regional was phenomenal and very caring. Most seemed quite knowledgeable about bariatric surgery.
- So DS patients aren't allowed to even drink clear liquids until you pass gas! That didn't happen for me until mid-afternoon on Thursday, so 48 hours later. Talk about dry mouth
- Once I started drinking, I was told to VERY slowly sip 1 oz of liquid every 15 minutes. But the weird thing was that I felt like I could handle drinking an entire bottle of water. I suppose that's because my stomach was untouched this time? I did take it slow all day Thursday and Friday, but today, I am drinking pretty normally with no issues. Getting in my hydrating fluids is not an issue.
- So I'm also supposed to get in at least 60 g of protein (according to NUT), so I am drinking Premier Protein at 30 g each. They taste good enough, but they don't seem to sit well with my stomach. My stomach feels sour afterwards. Thoughts on that?
- I also feel VERY constipated. Took Miralax at 4:00am today, but nothing still. I feel so super bloated and my stomach is sour, along with a foul taste in my mouth. Is all of this normal?
- I researched constipation for DSers (on this board!) and I see that fat is my answer! But I'm told not to eat real food until Feb 7, which is 2 weeks after surgery. Eek, that was easy to do when my VSG was done, but I'm already feeling an occasional hunger pang and food sounds so good (again, very different from first surgery). I keep wondering if a very mashed up egg would be okay to eat? Or some full-fat cottage cheese? Maybe some full-fat refried beans? Would that get things moving? Or is this too dangerous?
- I feel frustrated that I had to sit in the same pre-op class (4 days before surgery) as all of the sleeve and RNY patients. I was the only DSer. I was given the same directions of low-fat, very low calorie, and vitamin regimen as everyone else. Thank goodness I had already found all of you! But I also admit that it presents a conundrum as I like to be very open and brutally honest with what I'm doing so that the medical experts can really know what they are dealing with and provide the best help. But if I do that in this situation, I will be labeled as non-compliant. It's a weird position to be in and I am shocked that an entity as advanced as DUKE is still so behind.
- Last comments on vitamins before I begin my massive ordering? I'm leaning towards vitalady's pre-packaged option so I don't have to figure it all out, but if you have something simpler or feedback, I would be forever grateful!
- So I'm exactly 4 days out and I am not in any pain. Haven't had a pain med for 36 hours.
- I am constipated though and the pressure is uncomfortable.
- I weighed this afternoon and I am 2 pounds heavier than the day I went into the hospital. I find this odd since I haven't had food for 5 straight days now (includes pre-op day of liquids only.) I know we were told this would happen. Does anyone know the reasoning behind this?
- Walking really is my best friend, and it's been surprisingly easy this whole time. I was walking the night of my surgery. I walked every chance I got. Laying in bed made my back hurt, so I had extra motivation!
Cheers,
Stefanie