Whit, so sorry to hear of your son. We adopted my youngest son who was born with fetal alcohol syndrome. Both his bio-mother and father drank and did cocaine. They were not married as mom had 5 kids by 5 different dads. When Bobby was 13 months he was beaten by both. It was shaken baby with traumatic brain injury. Both bio mom and dad went to prison. Bobby was a foster child and after that incident our family agreed to adopt him. We knew he would have to be institutionalized or passed from foster home to foster home and eventually end up in prison. After his adoption we never did foster care as the saying goes, if you can only save one. He has been a gift to us all. My health started to decline with all his doctor visits over the years. Guess I didn't know stress when it was right on top of me. Thought I could handle it all. Traveled to all the conventions, gave talks at local schools on the effects on alcohol and the unborn but in the end my health paid a toll. Seems my passion to help educate other parents raise kids w/fas who did not know of FAS before they adopted kids form the foster care system, Russia, ect. got the best of me. Still I would do it all again. His life taught me and those around us the meaning of human dignity, legit suffering, and living out one's dying at such a young age.
When I was 16 I was put into jail for being incorrigible. Kept running away form home. Best thing that ever happened to me. Met my DH at age 13 and I was 14. Couldn't keep us apart, but they tried. So glad they did. Being in jail broke me. This is where I found that their is a God, something greater than one self. Anyhoo, Many good people find themselves in jail, prison,and if they have changed they will live it out and we will all bare witness to their change.
When I was 16 I was put into jail for being incorrigible. Kept running away form home. Best thing that ever happened to me. Met my DH at age 13 and I was 14. Couldn't keep us apart, but they tried. So glad they did. Being in jail broke me. This is where I found that their is a God, something greater than one self. Anyhoo, Many good people find themselves in jail, prison,and if they have changed they will live it out and we will all bare witness to their change.