more2adore
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Yes, I've read your posts about your brothers and really empathised! They're lucky to have you, and we're lucky on this forum to get to benefit from your advice as well.
State of Virginia. In-laws are in AZ.
Actually, I guess technically it's my employer's money. Since I left in the middle of the FSA year, I had only paid about half of the amount of my FSA, and I used 100% of it up. I double-checked with my employer that I was allowed to do that - apparently they pay the remainder, and it's a risk they take with offering FSAs since they know employees can leave at any time, and they consider it a cost of doing business. But yeah, I get what you mean. Aetna is being ridiculous. I don't have the EOB for this because it arrived at my house after I'd moved and my mom can't find it, and I can no longer access Aetna's online system, either. But I can probably get a copy from Aetna if it will help with the FSA. They're not nearly as hard to deal with as Anthem.
Luckily I can make phone calls via Skype, so I can call for free. I'll just have to keep getting up at crazy times until this is handled.
Ut-oh...were the other three personal or pro bono. Not that you like losing ANY of them...but...some cost you money and the other just hurt your feelings.Well I'm glad, if only because it makes me 1 for 4 today in the insurance wars.
Well...crap.My DeltaDental appeal (they refused to pay for any of my last six crowns, saying "Replacing tooth structure lost by abrasion, erosion, attrition or abfraction is excluded under this plan" - so WTF IS covered then???) - finally was told I lost the second level appeal, and that I have no further appeal rights like external review, because of the type of plan I have - so filed a complaint with the VA Corporations Commission for their procedural as well as substantive wrongful behavior.
My brother's Exemption from the HMO version of LA County Medi-Cal has STILL not been processed, allegedly because the MALS surgeon's office did not submit progress notes (I'm sure she did) back on Aug. 19th - but now, since he has been found to not have MALS, I don't know if they will do that; also, the MALS surgeon referred him to a GI doc at UCI, and an appointment was made, but then UCI canceled it, saying he could get an LA County GI doc. I spent a good part of yesterday trying to find one at UCLA/Reagan, but did not get an answer back from the GI doc I picked based on publications (I ferreted out his email addy, and sent him an email, but he has not answered) - BUT - my brother needs a referral from UCI, AND he needs to have the Exemption from the HMO and to have been given the right to stay on straight Medi-Cal - but that has not been done yet, so he's in limbo.
Someone else in my family needed a specialty referral for a psych issue that came up, and I had gotten their BCBS insurance to tell me what programs were available - I found a residential program out of state affiliated with one program that BCBS had given as being in-network, and (although frankly, it is no longer of interest right now) the residential program had been trying to get verification of benefits since Wednesday - the verification office closed early on Wednesday, nobody answered on Thursday, on Friday they closed at 10:30 AM (!!!), on Monday, the program apparently called MULTIPLE times, was put on hold for 30-45' and then abruptly the call was dropped. The residential program called me this morning to apologize and explain what happened, and I called BCBS and went thermonuclear on their collective *****. Later today, the residential program called me back, and said that they finally got a call back with the requested information - the patient does not have residential treatment benefits available - not that that was desired (in the meantime, a suitable outpatient program was found), but SHEESH!! What if it really HAD been a serious emergency? I'm still furious about that.
In addition:
Unbelievably, there are at the same time TWO potential DS patients Larra and I have been working with, who have self-funded plans with restrictions on where they can get bariatric surgery, and we are trying to get their employers to waive the restrictions, since there are no suitable in-network surgeons or facilities. We're waiting to hear about one, which at least had an appeals process, but the other one's employer is being a complete ******, both HR and legal, and the patient is now having to work with a lawyer - I HATE when that happens.
And my daughter's ******* insurance company - which is merely the administrator of HER self-funded plan - used an unfairly expansive interpretation of "infertility treatment" and the assertion that there is only one possible way to code oocyte cryopreservation, to refuse to consider that her situation is for preservation of fertility, which is NOT the same thing (her ovaries are being destroyed by endometriosis). It's kind of like the distinction between getting breast implants for cosmetic reasons, rather than post-mastectomy - it is the same procedure, but for different reasons. I am trying to decide what to do next, as I negotiated a self-pay rate with the clinic that is less than $5K/cycle (she will need 2-3 cycles as the first one only ended up with 6 frozen oocytes and they want her to have at least 20), which makes filing a Federal ERISA suit financially untenable, but I am angry for other women who are being denied as well. Trying to get a class action attorney interested.
Oh, and I billed a half hour of actual work today too.