This is the best thing I have read recently on the topic of being an overweight woman and trying not to be. Reading the comments made me sad.
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/08/02/...column-region®ion=top-news&WT.nav=top-news
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/08/02/...column-region®ion=top-news&WT.nav=top-news