Wow, that's quite a difference. You look great! I think because we see ourselves every day, we can be a bit blind to how much change there has been. You're brain will eventually catch up.
As far as carrying the weight well, I happen to think that may be a benefit. I too carried it well as far as being evenly proportioned and fairly compact/firm. I had my surgery at 43yo, and feel like my skin issues were minor for my age and weight. At 50, I'm not going to be a bikini model, but I'd have been OK living with my post weight loss body. I did have have some nips/tucks, but it was because I was able to. I'd have been fine with with the resulting skin. I know age and genetics and highest bmi and how long all affect how it comes off, but I'm certain that those of us that carried the bulk well have a definite advantage after it comes off.
Good luck on the job stuff too. Even that is easier without the excess weight.