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That's a cot in my book!Actually, it wasn't a cot...just a cheap-ass army bed of the Basic Training variety. I misspoke. Or exaggerated. Or lied, but only a little.
That's a cot in my book!Actually, it wasn't a cot...just a cheap-ass army bed of the Basic Training variety. I misspoke. Or exaggerated. Or lied, but only a little.
Welcome Connie .Hi all,
I am preop and still trying to figure out which procedure would be best for me.
I have a consultation with Dr. Ayoola next month (11/10), but they've already told me my BCBS (Federal) wouldn't cover DS at my BMI (41) without comorbidities. I haven't been to a PCP in years, so I have an appointment on Tues to do bloodwork and start a history in hopefully one place. Dr Ayoola's office sent me what they would require preop so I can get it done at the same time. I am in the process of gathering some medical records from various places to have a medical history. That being said, if I really don't have comorbidities, I'm not sure the "best" procedure for weightloss and maintaining that weightloss (DS) is best for me? Is it overkill? My 2nd choice is VSG. There is something about the stomach just hanging out in the RNY that just creeps me out.
Anyway, my name is Connie. Single mom to one teenage boy, 2 Frenchies, 1 Doberman, and a Fat Cat that could probably also benefit from VSG, but then who would keep our feet warm in the winter?!
Actually, it wasn't a cot...just a cheap-ass army bed of the Basic Training variety. I misspoke. Or exaggerated. Or lied, but only a little.
Maybe I please disagree with you, Rob? Just a teensy bit?
WTF do you mean you can fake sleep apnea and it's easy?! I may have to hit you over the head with my now-unused
Bi-Pap machine, if you keep this up! LOL
FIRST, you have to get tested. Christ, that's fun. I'm an army vet, so I got to go to the VA (it was free that way) and take my jammies and have some psycho glue electrodes to my scalp with some concoction that was pretty much glue, wax and dried up bugers. They next morning...after I spent a night sleeping ( trying to sleep) with some guy I'd never met...usually I require at least a kind word and a mojito...they try to remove the goo with some tincture of emu piss or something. Whatever clothing it lands on is instantaneously out of service.
And the sleeping part...the test only works if you sleep...on an army cot, with some guy across the room, ugh. I have had the test on two other occasions, more elite surroundings. But it is NOT a fun experience.
Then...the results! When you get them and learn that your obesity is causing...over and over, all night long...your lungs to cease functioning! It is, my dear, a bit of an eye opener.
Sleep apnea may SEEM like a fake, because it doesn't hurt...but it can kill you. AND, if you get diagnosed with it and get a good fit and figure out how to use your BiPAP or CPAP, the first night you get some sleep with that thing is like a whole new life...it's really great.
You may have it.
Get tested and maybe you will enjoy a really restful slumber, too!
Welcome @Purple Frog
I had the RNY back in April 2009 ==> Best decision I've ever made in my adult life.
I was 438 pounds at my highest weight and am happy to say I've maintained a weightloss of 200+ pounds. I personally don't think there's anything creepy about the procedure. I think my pouch is awesomeness LOL -- To each their own though.
Here's wishing you the best of luck in whichever procedure you choose. BF.org is a wonderful community and will be here to support your WLS success!
Again welcome. Enjoy and happy posting.
J.
Then you absolutely NEED one. Like NOW.
Please dont hurt me spiky! You are absolutly right...I worded that a little sloppy. FAKE was the wrong choice of words. I have been using a CPAP machine for TWELVE years and I LOVE it!!! I can get six hours of oxygenated sleep and wake up rested and ready to go! I tell everyone that the worst part of having it is, I dont get to take naps anymore, sometimes those are fun!
So....I DO know about sleep apnea. The point I was trying to make is, theres a good chance that she has it (high % of overweight people do), and could maybe do a few things to "Enhance her chances for diagnosis".
Welcome @Purple Frog !
And @robs477 - I can tell you with 1000% certainty that my SEVERE sleep apnea was KILLING ME SLOWLY. Not only was the night of the sleep study one of the, if not THE, single worst experience of my life (fully in agreement with @Spiky Bugger on everything except the cot!) But I was ceasing to breathe more than 40 times per night! My brain was severely deprived of oxygen. Years of never getting quality sleep destroyed my immune system and caused me to fall asleep all day long, and while driving! When it was at it's worst, I can tell you that life was not worth living anymore. Definitely not something I could've, or would've wanted to, fake.
*oh, and it also ****** up my heart. Years of the repeated cycles of not breathing and my heart speeding up to try to get more oxygen to my brain and then slowing down once I started breathing again, gave me AFib and SVT. I was at a high risk for a stroke because of those things as well. I don't think I would've live to see 40 if it hadn't gotten addressed.
Yes, I think you're right! I guess I've tried to block out that entire experience!40 times per night, or per hour? The number they give you (AHI = Apnea/Hypopnea Index) is per hour. If yours were 40, you had 40 flow limitations (breathing restrictions) of some type per HOUR.
Mine was 120 per hour! You can bet your ass I was on CPAP religiously the second they gave me one.