@bearmom
(1) The most fun we had was at the rodeo in Bulverde. It was great for the family and probably would have been even more fun as an adults-only outing, because the party really gets started when the rodeo ends and sleepy kids depart. Really great time:
http://tejasrodeo.com/
(2) JW Marriott Hill Country was nice spacious resort facility with lots to do, both adults-only and for kids. Delicious restaurants - best meals of the trip on property. I'd stay there again.
(3) Hotel Contessa was Meh - like a dressed up Marriott Courtyard, but location right on the riverwalk was great. Food and service were mediocre. Plenty of restaurants steps away, worth stepping.
(4) Boat tour would best be done at sunset.
(5) People raved about Mi Tierra, but we weren't overly impressed. Fun atmosphere, but average Tex Mex food.
(6) Schilo's Deli - delicious for breakfast and lunch. We dined there twice.
(7) Alamo - we all know how it ended. Half hour to 45 minute visit. Surrounded by tourist traps.
(8) Only tourist trap definitely worth visiting - Amazing Mirror Maze - even for grown-ups .
(9) Avoid Ripley's Museum - hasn't been updated since 19802'/90's
(10) Briscoe Western Art Museum - small, but nice - very cool decorative tack - near Riverwalk
(11) Witte Museum - small, and not near Riverwalk but well done Really liked the display on the people of the Pecos River Valley and also the Boeing exhibit - worth the drive
(12) Japanese gardens - lovely and near the Witte...