Roo did, and that's what made me ask - who has a spouse/significant other that they met on the internet?
@RockDoc, I'm sorry for the loss of your husband. Maybe next time (and another nice bottle of organic wine) your friend will be willing to help you sort through the crowds and select one or two people who might be fun to get to know better.
I'm curious. Is your interest geology, music or something else altogether?
@RockDoc, I am sorry your lost your husband...it's hard to start over.