Hi Marissamast,
I had my surgery with Dr. Simper 4 weeks ago today. The incision on my right side is still pretty tender. However, it also split open (and is still open). I had my lapband removed from the same place, so my incision may also be a bit larger than yours......about 3 1/2 inches long. It does get better. For me it has become more of a "pulling" sensation vs. real pain.
Tina