Feels like I need to point out responding appropriately in an unexpected event is part of driving. An important part.
I hope you do practice driving and get him into the habit of being the passenger.
this is going on all over: one spouse is the 24/7 caregiver for the other and/or two spouses with various deficits are together making one functional unit. I'm sure there is no where near enough support for you out there (thank God for mini Sue in your case) but I hope you can find whatever help you need.
I know you meant to type "in silent" but thank you for the laugh this morning, since it would be so hard to have a spouse who put his phone in insolent mode!
they are and I want the two of you to realize that the burden of this kind of 24/7 caregiving is something you can tolerate up to a point and who knows what that point is and when you reach it? or that point (I imagine) comes and goes in waves. whatever, it has to be exhausting and drains you for taking care of your own health. I mean, I can only imagine what that is like.
PLEASE tell me you both have options for respite care. options plural would be best!
