Thank you for your apology, I appreciate it very much !
I suspect that if we'd had those conversations in person, my "delivery" would not have been in question. Words sound very different in conversation than in writing. I realize this, but I have found over the years that trying to alleviate that issue can be a lost cause in Internet communications.
I think that at this point, you would do well to do two things: One, go to a different type of multi. I prefer the Centrum type over the One a Day type. I'll throw in a plug for the Kirkland multi that's like Centrum, as it's better than Centrum in a few things. Also, having that much calcium carbonate in the One a Day is going to interfere with absorption of some other things in that vite.
I think that at this point, one or two Centrum-type multis twice a day would be plenty and would not overload your system with possibly difficult stuff like the calcium carbonate and craptons of B6.