And, yes, I'm looking at RNY or the sleeve, but leaning heavily toward RNY. My comorbidities are high blood pressure, high cholesterol, sleep apnea (although I suffered from apnea before I was over-weight)... I am not diabetic and I do not have any known heart issues, although my father has had triple by-pass (and one blockage being treated with medication) and my brother is on his second artificial aortic heart valve due to genetic aortic stenosis. I also suffer from an autoimmune disease called leukocytoclastic vasculitis (basically, my immune system gets over active and attacks my body causing my blood vessels to inflame). My weight is something I can do something about. I just turned 36 last week and I want to be able to have kids and live long enough to raise them. I've seen a cousin and a best friend both have success with RNY, and I have a distant cousin who hasn't had as much success with the sleeve, but I'm not sure how compliant she is.
PEIA is basically the devil, but I will do what I have to in order to make this happen.