I've been lurking the DS message boards for ~3 years, but haven't taken the plunge yet. I'm a 33yr old male, 390 lb, 6'2". I actually went in for a consultation with Dr. Buchwald at University of Minnesota about 3 years ago, but at the time decided to give one more attempt at dieting/exercise...which did result in 60 lbs lost...and then regained. I'm now taking another look at getting the surgery and am curious if anyone on these boards have used surgeons from Minnesota? Dr. Buchwald is now retired, so it seems like my choices are either Dr. Ikramuddin or Dr. Leslie.
For some reason it is difficult for me to get over the mental hurdle that the benefits (quality and quantity of life) outweigh the risks and tradeoffs. I know I won't ever lose and maintain without the surgery, and I know my current quality of life isn't great...but I'm scared of the potential complications, the burden and responsibility of maintenance, and the potential long term risks like osteoporosis and anemia. And yet, no one has ever told me that they wish they hadn't gotten the surgery.
I have a 4 year old daughter that I would love to be more active with. At her daycare, when I come in the room all the kids say "that's a big daddy" I'd also love to fit comfortably in a single airplane seat!
For some reason it is difficult for me to get over the mental hurdle that the benefits (quality and quantity of life) outweigh the risks and tradeoffs. I know I won't ever lose and maintain without the surgery, and I know my current quality of life isn't great...but I'm scared of the potential complications, the burden and responsibility of maintenance, and the potential long term risks like osteoporosis and anemia. And yet, no one has ever told me that they wish they hadn't gotten the surgery.
I have a 4 year old daughter that I would love to be more active with. At her daycare, when I come in the room all the kids say "that's a big daddy" I'd also love to fit comfortably in a single airplane seat!