Brandy Rediker
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- Jan 7, 2014
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I'm really need to vent right now. I am getting tired of telling anyone about my decision to have WLS, specially family. I love my brothers but I can't stand when they feel the need to tell me "You can't lose this weight on your own what makes you think you can do it with WLS?" Today I told my brother that I submitted my mother and I's health questions and insurance with Dr. Sudan's office. My brother's like, "you know you and mom likes to whine about everything, your gonna make dad miserable taking care of mom and mom's gonna whine because she wants to eat food she can't have. I feel for dad and James." He then proceeded on that I (me) like to pile my plate up with food and I don't know when to stop that I'm just losing a battle that I will never win. Ughhhh!! How determined I am to show them, that yes it will be hard but NO WAY IN HELL am I gonna whine over anything. I've had 3 C-sections, a partial hysterectomy, and my appendix removed never once during or after my surgeries did I complain. I told him to do his research before judging us on how we will react after having our surgeries. I will show him and my husband that I can do this and I will prove them wrong. Okay I'm done venting! Thank you for reading!!