Thanks everyone for the welcome. Me and husband in the same boat. We even got the lapband together, worked better for him than me. He lost 100 pounds…I lost maybe 30 but exercised a lot. At my age now(68) I cant exercise like I used to especially with added weight. .....
FWIIW... age is not, necessarily, a problem. I got my DS at 68. Medicare,if you've got it, will cover most of the cost
OTOH, the lap band might be, sometimes they leave scars. Speaking roughly, the lap band is perpendicular to the path of food in the stomach, the VSG ( first part of DS ) reduces the stomach by stapling a line in the "direction" of food path.
There are many people who successfully revised from lap band to DS. You might find their comments in the revision section of weight loss forums.
Finally, good for you trying to do something about it. It's hard enough going into your early old age (70s), without having to haul around all the extra weight
It's subtle, but stairs standing and walking are all a whole lot easier at the lighter weight.