why do I feel as though I am being scolded as a child? is this sight not called bariatic facts? this is simple. I am looking for cold hard information to backup the allegations or recommendation I have found in searching this entire sight. All I have asked is why do you only recommend Dr. Esquerra or why should I be running away from michelle welsh, other than your biased opinion? what information are you basing this all on so I can make my own informed decision. other wise I am just going off the advice of strangers and isn't that exactly what you are not telling me not to do with michelle. she has been very accommodating in answering any and every question I have. I have done my own research and have had difficulty finding any of the information you have mentioned. now this forum has really made me second guess choosing dr. arellano however I am not trying to make a quick and rash decision based on anyone's opinion. you are telling me to run away from Michelle Welsh, she is telling me different things also, so who am I to believe? That's why I insist on you proving it to me. am I supposed to blindly just follow what you say because you have a lot of information that may or may not be true. all I'm asking is for some empirical evidence. also both surgeons are the same price, it really has nothing to do with money. if I were so careless in my searching why would I be asking anything and instead just go to Tijuana for $3,000? Mainly I would like to know why is Dr. esquerra so ethical as you say and is he a certified bariatrics surgeon and if so where can I find that information. also how would I find the HIPAA violations, and the paper trail of 10 + year history of duplicitous behavior. how do you know Dr. Ungsong trained Dr. Esquerra? is it published somewhere in a medical journal or is there a way the doctors are held accountable. I have never had surgery in mexico before and am not predisposed to any surgeon but simply looking for facts. you have provided me with opinions and stories that you are refusing to back up and that makes me question your validity also. so am I supposed to be following your advice blindly because you said it or am I supposed to be questioning and researching? isnt this a sight to aid in researching bariatric surgery options for people who need the facts? or am I in the wrong place?
@DbrooksThis is the first time I have been on this site. I have been doing nothing but research, and finding myself going crazy. I am politely asking for information because I saw a couple posts..no files that I know of. I'm not sure why you are talking to me like I'm a complete nuisance. I'm not even sure about Mexico for surgery..after all the b.s I've read, I've only decided on getting my daughter surgery this past month, and all these posts and sites are so contradictive. I am trying to research as much as possible..an that includes asking as many questions as possible..because real information is hard to find. I didn't realize I was walking into a hostile conversation.. I am just inquiring about one of the only people who SEEMED. Credible. I don't know all the answers, don't claim to..I am just trying to find as much info as possible, and I'm appreciative of any I find.
I'm the bad cop. Says so right on my avatar. I rile things up, get you angry and THINKING, and the good cops come in with calm and reasonableness to explain, when you're more receptive to hearing it.
Although, to be honest, you two both coming on here at the same time asking about Arellano is a little suspect - nobody has asked about him in 2-3 YEARS, and now two of you in one day. Hmmm. Daphne/Michelle - is that you?ive been thinking the same thing!
Here's a thread from three years ago. http://bariatricfacts.org/threads/dr-john-husted.1051/page-3#post-20959 - this is a long-term issue.
Lol..no..my name is Dee Dee Brooks. The reason we both came on is that Lydia found a post on FB with me asking questions and conversation/ between myself and Michele. We had been pm' ing each other because I had found nothing thus far, negative about Michele..and so she sent me the link to this conversation..so I jumped in. I had believed arellano to finally be someone who was reputable, and then was blown away by this feed. What price range is Dr esquerra for the sleeve and why ( my daughter is only 18) does everyone here say not to get it?I'm the bad cop. Says so right on my avatar. I rile things up, get you angry and THINKING, and the good cops come in with calm and reasonableness to explain, when you're more receptive to hearing it.
Although, to be honest, you two both coming on here at the same time asking about Arellano is a little suspect - nobody has asked about him in 2-3 YEARS, and now two of you in one day. Hmmm. Daphne/Michelle - is that you?
Here's a thread from three years ago. http://bariatricfacts.org/threads/dr-john-husted.1051/page-3#post-20959 - this is a long-term issue.
Thanks so much. I am trying so hard to figure out where I'm going and what I'm doing..the surgical weight control center in Las Vegas ..with Dr Atkins I believe and Dr soong, are who I have been referred to under my insurance. The cost will be $7800 up front, but I was told through a friend that went to Mexico that I could get just as good of care for much less. Well there started this crazy ride, and I'm not sure which direction to go in. If Dr esquerra will cost me just as much, I will probably stay here in the states..as we are looking at the sleeve. But now I keep reading how dumb the sleeve is? So confused..all I've read shows the sleeve to be the best option.@Lydia
Hey, let me step in here and try to help. Lydia, many, many people go to Dr Esquerra and they have all been very, very happy. I don't know anyone who has gone to Dr. Arelano and we have not had people on this board go to that Dr. I think people are a bit frustated because we have said the Dr we trust in Mexico is Dr. Esquerra.
To be honest, I went to Dr. Esquerra and I had a good experine. I did talk to Dr Kelly and his coordiantor. They did a great job selling me and had great reviews online and then I heard he almost killed someone and i had to dig deep to find it.
That is when I decided to trust the people on this board and figured people here knew more than me and had no financial incentive. I was so scared and confused and I had no idea who to trust.
I don't know much about Arellano and Michele Walsh. Here is what I do know, this is not a surgery to screw around with and I really was never going to get to the bottom of this by myself. I needed the help of people who followed what Doctors to go to.
I do get concerned when I hear people even talking about the coordinator. Who cares about the coordinator, that person is NOT the one with the knife that will put you under and cut your body apart. You might as well call that person the sales and account management person, so take the account and what that person's motivation is
I would ask you who you want to trust. The person who is trying to sell you a Dr in Mexico or a bunch of people who just care about this issue and helping people.
@DianaCox is a bit, well, agressive (and I love her for it), but she is very wise and knows the WLS space inside and out. You can choose to take her advice or not. You can choose to take the advice of all of us who went to Dr Esquerra or not - there are lots of us here.
@Dbrooks
I don't think you are walking into a hostile conversation at all. I think this is a very nice board of people who love their DS and we want to help and answer questions. In terms of Mexico, the people on this board send people to Dr. Esquerra because people have had very good experinces and as you said, this is confusing and overwhelming. I don't think anyone here would say we have all the answers or know all the Drs in Mexico, but we can help guide, so you should ask questions. I think we do know most of the Drs in the US though.
What are your questions, how can we help, we want to. We have Drs. Nurses, and other medical pros on this board as well as lawyers and then just passonate and supportive people.
I have found this people on this board to be so helpful in my journey. They helped me sort through the noise about WLS and choose the right doctor and and helped my adjust to my new body - which is a lot more work than I though.
So, just let us know how we can help.
Cheers all
Thanks so much. I am trying so hard to figure out where I'm going and what I'm doing..the surgical weight control center in Las Vegas ..with Dr Atkins I believe and Dr soong, are who I have been referred to under my insurance. The cost will be $7800 up front, but I was told through a friend that went to Mexico that I could get just as good of care for much less. Well there started this crazy ride, and I'm not sure which direction to go in. If Dr esquerra will cost me just as much, I will probably stay here in the states..as we are looking at the sleeve. But now I keep reading how dumb the sleeve is? So confused..all I've read shows the sleeve to be the best option.
So here is the thing about the sleeve, it works for some people and not others. And does not work well long term. Here are the stats Look at this page. You wanty data, here is the data. http://www.paclap.com/downloads/comparing-options-for-WLS.pdf I was at Dr. Rabkin's group the other day and there were two people who had the sleeve and it did not work and they were getting the DS part of the operation.Lol..no..my name is Dee Dee Brooks. The reason we both came on is that Lydia found a post on FB with me asking questions and conversation/ between myself and Michele. We had been pm' ing each other because I had found nothing thus far, negative about Michele..and so she sent me the link to this conversation..so I jumped in. I had believed arellano to finally be someone who was reputable, and then was blown away by this feed. What price range is Dr esquerra for the sleeve and why ( my daughter is only 18) does everyone here say not to get it?