Now did I, or did I not, see this coming?
The DS is a standard of care bariatric surgery with well documented, excellent long term results. It has been accepted as standard of care since, I think, 2004 or thereabouts. There are studies going out 10-15 years showing the best results of any bariatric surgery for percentage excess weight loss, for maintaining that weight loss, and for permanent (yes permanent) resolution of almost all comorbidities (gastric bypass does better for severe GERD). In addition, the long term studies show a very low rate of nutritional deficiencies, which are almost always caused by noncompliance. In other words, if you get good advice, take your vitamins and minerals as needed, eat plenty of protein, and get your labs checked regularly and adjust supplements as needed, you should be fine. I've done well with annual labs, others check more often.
OTOH, the SADI/SIPS is experimental, and not accepted as standard of care by any relevant organization or agency. It does not have well documented long term results. I appreciate that at least your potential surgeon was honest about what she's doing, others are not, and we've had some very upset and disappointed people show us their operative reports for what was called "the DS" which proved to be SADI. They couldn't understand why they weren't losing much weight by about 1 year out, and at that point, there was nothing they could do about it. I think devastated would be an accurate description.
Less risk? There is one less anastomosis with the SADI. It's the least risky part of the DS, in other words, all the higher risk parts of the operation are still done. Less risk long term? No proof. Equal benefit to the operation? Doubtful, and certainly not proven.
Risk is important, but we always need to consider both potential risk and potential benefit. You've already gone through one failed operation. Really want to try something unproven?